Compatibility between partners, colleagues, parents, friends

COMPATIBILITY…. Relationships are the most complicated area in the world, when we expect and act from our prism, and the other person reacts to us from their prism. We often don't understand why. Less often, our relationship comes into conflict because topics sensitive to both parties are touched upon. What is the compatibility with a partner, work colleague, boss? What does he expect from me, but what is better not to do in our relationship?

Answer to client about compatibility with her boyfriend….

You yourself are a multifaceted person: on the one hand, gentle, sensitive; on the other hand, a perfectionist and self-centered. These internal contradictions can also cause a lack of understanding of what kind of person you want next to you and what you expect from him, as well as what you are able to give. Likewise, the opposite party has changing impressions of you when, during the relationship, you reveal yourself as a completely different person than you initially seemed. I mention this because I understand how difficult it is for you to build relationships yourself. Therefore, it is important to get to know yourself in order to be able to help both yourself and the other half to overcome unexpected obstacles during relationship building.Sir - although his own interests are more important to him, he is more focused on contact than you. He needs another person. So are like-minded companies and environments. Family interests are important to him and this is probably the reason why you are attached to him. Your data shows that you love him and expect him to want to build a relationship together. On the other hand, he sees you as a strong woman who can be relied on, who puts everything on the shelves.

In general, in your situation, it could be said that the opposite poles attract, because you, with your order, dominance (which is not a bad word at all) are able to give a man stability in spheres where he himself does not feel confident, because sometimes he can express dreaminess, romanticism, desire for friends, own interests. Friends, however, remain in a subordinate sphere, because, as I have already mentioned, he is focused on a beneficial result for both himself and his family.Your weak point is misunderstandings that arise in relationships, where the gentleman can misunderstand your desire for a closer relationship, while you cannot understand his desire to be closed, on his own. These feelings can highlight being stuck in some commonly accepted stereotypes of what a relationship should be, which in turn can lead to each living their own life without being able to find common ground.

Therefore, look for a common project to work on, understand each other, make each other happy, so that love reigns in the relationship, not closing from each other. If there is a desire, I can help to understand what the other person is like and what is important to him.

The price of the consultation is €20. I like to discuss the sphere of compatibility and relationships in a conversation, when I can tell much more about the compatibility of specific persons. Price for a conversation: €30 (half an hour); €50 (hour).